💘 1. The Fantasy of African Love Many American women (especially Black women) grow up feeling undervalued in U.S. dating culture. African men often express strong admiration, calling them “queen,” “wife,” “my future,”  etc. It feels refreshing — romantic, respectful, and culturally affirming. Online, these men often promise loyalty, family values, and a sense of purpose. 🌍 2. The Pan-African Dream Some women genuinely believe they’re “returning home” — reconnecting with roo